Invitation Wording, Gracefully Done

The words on your invitation are the first thing guests will read about your day. Keep them clear, warm and true to you.

The classic order

Who is hosting, the request line, your names, the date and time written out, the venue and city, and what follows the ceremony.

Formal or relaxed

“Request the pleasure of your company” suits a black tie evening; “Join us as we celebrate” fits a garden party. Spell out the date for a formal suite and keep numerals for a modern one.

Details belong elsewhere

Keep the invitation calm: put accommodation, dress code and directions on a details card or your wedding website, and the reply date on the RSVP card.